LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES. PART I

As previously stated, the thing I was selected to represent didn't work out in that I did not advance or bring home any trophies. While I did not need this thing for my own ego, I just wanted to bring a little sunshine my university, my school, and my division. I wanted to win something to thank them for all they have done for me. 

There are two women who supported me and helped me prepare for this event.  One of them works at the university level and the other one at the school level.  I told them both before I departed that I wanted to do my very best.  They said:

"We know you will do a phenomenal job."

"We are so proud of you no matter the outcome." 

"We all know what a star you are."

"(You) made our school proud."

These are things my parents never said to me when I was growing up, ever. 

Why am I getting the love I needed from my family, from people at work?